Reflections & Revelations

The Life You Have Is the Life You’ve Allowed

Your Peace Is Not a Community Project

16 hrs ago • Adekunle Adekunbi

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Love Isn’t Confusing. People Are.

A short note on dating, discernment, and the dignity of clarity

Feb 2 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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January 2026

The Poverty of an Unfocused Mind

When you can’t sit still with one thing, you can’t grow deep.

Jan 26 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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The Tyranny of Potential

The Weight of Who We Could Be

Jan 19 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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Nigeria Is Sweet If You Have Money

And Bitter If You Don’t

Jan 12 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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Soft Life, Hard Consequences

What Social media didn’t tell you about ease.

Jan 5 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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December 2025

New Year, Same Delusion

Or, how to disappoint yourself with better fonts this time.

Dec 29, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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Modern Discernment Tools for Godly Dating

Applying timeless wisdom to contemporary romance

Dec 22, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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You Can’t Court Like Your Grandparents

You’re Not in Their World

Dec 15, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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It Takes Two to TikTok

And relationships, like trends, don’t go viral on solo effort.

Dec 8, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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What Makes Your Heart Sing?

Not what pays the bills. Not what wins applause. But what wakes you up inside.

Dec 1, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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November 2025

To Be Alone Is Not Always to Be Lonely

Solitude is not silence. Sometimes, it’s sanctuary.

Nov 24, 2025 • Adekunle Adekunbi

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