Reflections & Revelations

It Takes Two to TikTok

And relationships, like trends, don’t go viral on solo effort.

Dec 8 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

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What Makes Your Heart Sing?

Not what pays the bills. Not what wins applause. But what wakes you up inside.

Dec 1 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

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November 2025

To Be Alone Is Not Always to Be Lonely

Solitude is not silence. Sometimes, it’s sanctuary.

Nov 24 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

23

10

5

Love Is a Library of Small Things

Love isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it just remembers.

Nov 17 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

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2

7

Don’t Pretend That You Like the Life You’re Living

You can curate a feed. You can’t curate your soul.

Nov 10 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

23

4

7

Porn Starts with the Premise That Men and Women Are Stupid

And we’ve been performing that stupidity ever since.

Nov 3 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

35

13

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October 2025

A Middle Ground Does Not Exist

You’re not neutral. You’re just delaying your decision.

Oct 27 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

17

6

4

People Exhaust Me, but I Can’t Do Life Without Them

The ache of needing what sometimes wears you out.

Oct 20 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

23

16

9

What Porn Is Doing to All of Us

It’s not just about what people watch. It’s about what we’re becoming.

Oct 13 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

34

12

9

When Your Deepest Desires Require Someone Else

Because not everything can be achieved by effort alone.

Oct 6 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

27

8

3

September 2025

Relationships That Are Thieves of Time

Not all losses come with heartbreak, some come with invoices.

Sep 29 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

18

4

5

The World Is Full of People Sadder Than You

But that doesn’t mean you’re okay.

Sep 22 • 

Adekunle Adekunbi

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8

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