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Not Everyone You Love Belongs in Your Inner Circle
Access, affection, and the wisdom of loving people without giving them the keys to your life.
20 hrs ago
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Adekunle Adekunbi
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Being Chosen Is Not the Same as Being Loved
On the hunger to be picked, the danger of being claimed, and why love must do more than select you.
Aug 3
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Adekunle Adekunbi
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July 2026
You Are Not Behind. You Are Just Surrounded by Announcements.
On comparison, timelines, and the quiet cruelty of everyone posting their milestones at once.
Jul 27
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Adekunle Adekunbi
69
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The Life You Want May Require Disappointing People
A note on approval as a lifestyle, and why it is one of the more expensive ones available.
Jul 20
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Adekunle Adekunbi
40
6
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Have You Ever Seen a Very Old Fat Man?
On the compound interest of daily choices, and the body that will either thank you or indict you.
Jul 13
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Adekunle Adekunbi
18
4
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Vision Gives Your Life a Spine
Without vision, everything looks like an opportunity. With vision, you finally know what deserves your yes.
Jul 6
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Adekunle Adekunbi
38
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12
June 2026
'I'm Fine by God's Grace' Is Not a Health Plan
You Can’t Fulfil Purpose in a Body You Keep Neglecting
Jun 29
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Adekunle Adekunbi
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The Algorithm Knows You Better Than Your Friends Do
And it never even asked how you were doing.
Jun 22
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Adekunle Adekunbi
28
6
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You Cannot Be Loved at a Distance
On trust, vulnerability, and why the thing protecting you may also be the thing isolating you.
Jun 15
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Adekunle Adekunbi
81
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How We Romanticise Failure
Sometimes failure is a teacher. Sometimes it is just poor preparation with a motivational caption.
Jun 8
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Adekunle Adekunbi
41
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The Children of Sacrifice Are Tired
On being raised by people who gave everything, and feeling guilty for wanting ease.
Jun 1
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Adekunle Adekunbi
28
13
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May 2026
The Age of Low-Commitment Living
Why people want love, community, purpose, and faith without the cost of consistency.
May 28
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Adekunle Adekunbi
42
6
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